A Submissive’s Mantra
i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and i from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
i will try not to manipulate my Master. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should
i will keep an open mind about trying things that i am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires.
i will not allow myself to be harmed and abused. i know that submissive does not equal doormat.
i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. i will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where i have been. i will take the time to help those who are new to start out on the correct path.
i will be responsive to my Master. i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist Him in His responsibilities as my authority. i know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Master to know thoughts or feelings which i do not share.
i will accept in the responsibility of a scene or a relationship gone bad. i will not place total blame on my Master when it is not warranted simply because He is the Dominant. i realize that things may not work out as they should sometimes, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on
i will give my gift of submission only to Those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. i will not place anyone in the position of controlling me non-consensually, nor will i give my respect to someone that has not earned it.
i know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a “better” submissive because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be boastful of my experiences.
i will be obedient to my Master even if i disagree with what He is requesting. i realize He has my best interests at heart and often knows better than i what i need in a particular situation. i know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see Him in a positive way. i will not intentionally embarrass or displease Him.
Above all, will wear my title of submissive with honor. i will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. i will take pride in who and what i am and will never show myself in a negative way.
It is a unique position I find myself in. I am often standing above my little sister, her leash in my hand, her sharp mind and kittenish desires, teased and caressed by my fingers. Then again, as today, I find myself beside her, kneeling beside her, our attention focused on the Master we share and on each other, as he directs.
It is the best part of being bi and being switch. And a continued blessing to be beholden to a man who not only understands that part of me, but nurtures it.
“Do you really want him to do you in the arse?”
“You heard what He said.”
“What do you want?”
“Whatever He wants.”
“Can I… Can I watch?”
“Ask Him.”
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“I love you, kitten.”
“I love you too, princess.”
This was my day…and it was beautiful!
(Source: lenser)
Reason #343,469,031 why He…
is the right man to have above me:
He can ‘hear’ me when I’m venting and understand what I am trying to say even as I am struggling to reach the words I need to convey my frustration and dismay about a situation. He listens, reassures, corrects, offers suggestions and perspective, but he does not, WILL not ‘fix’ things for me.
Very few people can talk me down out of my tree when I’m like that; even if I’m not in a full blown rage.
He can.
On Intelligent, Well-Read Submissives.
I love intelligent girls. Absolutely adore them. And I find those who are passionate about reading and writing share a common thread. They all yearn for an equally intelligent Dominant who can reach deep into their erotic “centers”, rip the pages from their fantasies, and give them a lifetime of living, breathing memories.
An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can fuck her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an intellectual equal but effortlessly assume his role as Dominant - the only man she would ever consider yielding to. For her, this need is utterly palpable. She can feel his hands through his words, his voice, and his instruction.
And herein is my secret insight. Intelligent, gifted submissives are the naughtiest, sluttiest, hungriest girls imaginable. They are capable of giving themselves completely up to the man they trust and respect, and going places they themselves do not yet know they are capable of going. They are insatiable once leashed (note the irony). And they hunger to experience whatever their man challenges them with and sate him with the gift of their bodies and their talents.
For the man who can appreciate my words - I promise you - the dance on the fringe can be a most inspiring journey of sensual delights with a smart, talented girl.
Caption © Fringe of Darkness, 2012
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Is reblogging this and feeling that it is truly correct for me an act of arrogance? Do I have the temerity say I am a good submissive and it is for the reason the writer ascribes? ~Pet
Captivate my mind and my heart and body will follow. If there is one thing I appreciate most of my Master is his appreciate of my intellect. NEVER have I been called stupid, dumb, or incompetent. I strive each day to prove my worth to a man I kneel to willingly, feeling every bit his intellectual equal.
(Source: underview)
Today I welcomed a new kitten into the family home. I’m so very pleased to have her and grateful that Sir found her.
Wallpaper…some cute girls kissing with just a hint of bondage…hehe
